The Fairytale of a Mistress - Part 2
So you won the man! What is it exactly that you have won? In your eyes you have won the ultimate prize, but it was there for the taking, wasn't it? Have you won your 'happily ever after'?
He says he made a mistake cheating on his wife, but he simply couldn't resist your charms. But you covered all bases and made it too difficult for him to escape the enmeshed web you have woven. He is yours!
But there is a little niggling doubt at the back of your mind. What if he does the same thing to me? You know he can commit....but you also know he can cheat. You tell yourself that would never happen because he loves you too much and he told you that you are the one that he has waited for. And you are already carrying his child, another part of the intricate web of entrapment you have woven to ensure he couldn't escape. He only did it to her because she was horrible and not as beautiful as you. However, you have noticed the way he talks about his new co worker.
He is constantly telling you about how intelligent and funny she is, and how bubbly her personality is, how infectious her laughter is within the office and how often she works out at the gym. He even tells you about her new hairstyle when she gets her hair done and how fabulous she looks, suggesting you go and see her hairdresser. But somehow he never seems to even notice when you get your hair done. She must be a real stunner, hey, and here you are feeling fat and ugly because you are carrying his unborn child, the child conceived out of the most amazing love.
But you trust him because he could never desire another woman like he does you. He has proven that to you because he left his wife and children for you. You are just being paranoid, you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
He has taken on some extra work to bring in more money to buy all the things needed for your baby. You miss him alot because he always seems to be at work these days. He no longer talks to you like he used to when he gets home from work because he is simply too exhausted. You are feeling rejected and alone but you understand because he just wants everything to be perfect for the arrival of your baby.
And this continues after the baby has arrived because you are finding it really hard financially because of all that Child Support you pay to her, the evil selfish Ex wife, for those stinking little brats that your Prince Charming has every second weekend. They take him away from you, he is more focussed and committed to them than he is to you and the baby that you created together. You just want him to spend time with you and your child, but he just wants to spend every second of everyday he has with his other kids because he desperately misses being with them everyday.
The feelings of rejection and abandonement silently eat away at you. Like ivy slowly growing over a tree that once stood so tall and beautiful, it continues to grow until you are now starving for the oxygen that keeps you alive. You lash out at him and seemingly fight each and everyday over the most trivial things. That bloody ex wife! She is the reason for this, isn't she? She has really messed him up. It's all her fault!
And as you go through the motions of your mundane life, cleaning out the pockets of his jeans and jacket, to put yet ANOTHER load of washing on, you find a ticket stub for the movies, or a receipt for a dinner for two, or just something that makes you realise your are no Princess Charming and he is certainly no Prince Charming.
The Ex wife tried to tell you but she was just horrible wasn't she?
He says he made a mistake cheating on his wife, but he simply couldn't resist your charms. But you covered all bases and made it too difficult for him to escape the enmeshed web you have woven. He is yours!
But there is a little niggling doubt at the back of your mind. What if he does the same thing to me? You know he can commit....but you also know he can cheat. You tell yourself that would never happen because he loves you too much and he told you that you are the one that he has waited for. And you are already carrying his child, another part of the intricate web of entrapment you have woven to ensure he couldn't escape. He only did it to her because she was horrible and not as beautiful as you. However, you have noticed the way he talks about his new co worker.
He is constantly telling you about how intelligent and funny she is, and how bubbly her personality is, how infectious her laughter is within the office and how often she works out at the gym. He even tells you about her new hairstyle when she gets her hair done and how fabulous she looks, suggesting you go and see her hairdresser. But somehow he never seems to even notice when you get your hair done. She must be a real stunner, hey, and here you are feeling fat and ugly because you are carrying his unborn child, the child conceived out of the most amazing love.
But you trust him because he could never desire another woman like he does you. He has proven that to you because he left his wife and children for you. You are just being paranoid, you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
He has taken on some extra work to bring in more money to buy all the things needed for your baby. You miss him alot because he always seems to be at work these days. He no longer talks to you like he used to when he gets home from work because he is simply too exhausted. You are feeling rejected and alone but you understand because he just wants everything to be perfect for the arrival of your baby.
And this continues after the baby has arrived because you are finding it really hard financially because of all that Child Support you pay to her, the evil selfish Ex wife, for those stinking little brats that your Prince Charming has every second weekend. They take him away from you, he is more focussed and committed to them than he is to you and the baby that you created together. You just want him to spend time with you and your child, but he just wants to spend every second of everyday he has with his other kids because he desperately misses being with them everyday.
The feelings of rejection and abandonement silently eat away at you. Like ivy slowly growing over a tree that once stood so tall and beautiful, it continues to grow until you are now starving for the oxygen that keeps you alive. You lash out at him and seemingly fight each and everyday over the most trivial things. That bloody ex wife! She is the reason for this, isn't she? She has really messed him up. It's all her fault!
And as you go through the motions of your mundane life, cleaning out the pockets of his jeans and jacket, to put yet ANOTHER load of washing on, you find a ticket stub for the movies, or a receipt for a dinner for two, or just something that makes you realise your are no Princess Charming and he is certainly no Prince Charming.
The Ex wife tried to tell you but she was just horrible wasn't she?
posted by kissmekate at 4:30 pm
1 Comments:
sad but true. I don't get it myself - why would a woman want to pry a husband away from his wife? Why does she want to participate in this type of behavior?
In my case, my husband told his co-workers tidbits about his marriage, and that co-worker made him "realize" what a horrible wife I am. Never mind the fact that my picture was on my husband's desk at work with the rest of his family pictures all the way up until March - when he started cheating on me, and on that same month he filed for divorce - at the urging of this co worker.
(I put in for certain records depicting this to be the case, to be subpoenaed)
What hurts more is that after 10 years of being together, my husband simply left me at her convincing - and he's only known her for about 5 months.
In any case, thanks shattered.
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