The Fairytale of a Mistress - Part 1
He is very married and you know it. He is the "forbidden fruit", the unattainable. He is handsome, he is your knight in shining armour that has come to rescue you from your troubled and empty life.
He is a handsome Prince Charming, living 'happily ever after' with a woman who is not you. You are jealous and challenged at the same time. You want to become part of that fairytale. You want to live your life as Princess Charming, so you write yourself into the script. You turn on your charm and it doesn't take long for Prince Charming to notice you.
You realise that he wants you to come into his life and add some excitement to his charmed but mundane existance. He wants to feel the exhilaration and excitement of it all, because to him, you are also the forbidden fruit. You are the unattainable, and he wants that like any man wants what he is not supposed to have.
To give you the cruel pleasure and comfort that you crave you embark on a furiously passionate affair with another woman's Prince Charming.
You don't even stop to think about his wife. Why would you? Your ultimate objective was to take the goodies and leave Princess Charming with nothing. How stupid can she be, because you are both pulling something over her, aren't you? Who cares what she thinks anyway. If her husband didn't want to cheat he wouldn't have, would he?
So that means he is yours......fair and square. It doesn't make an ounce of difference that she did not know that she was in a contest for her own husband's affections, does it?
And the kids...well they are hers, not his in your eyes. He didn't want to have children anyway, but you know he ADORES his children. But that's OK, because you are a mum and you will take care of them, probably better than that angry and bitter woman that looks after them now. They deserve better too, don't they? And of course you can offer them so much after you've torn their family apart. You can heal the wounds that you have selfishly inflicted upon them.
You are his true love, and you know that because he tells you that all the time. He is madly and desperately in love with you. He can't wait to spend the rest of his life with you. So one day he finally leaves his wife and children to live 'happily ever after' with you.
Mission accomplished! You have got what you set out to get. You've got her man and you should be so proud of yourself! You've got the man that vowed his life to someone else...what an achievement! Not only have you got her man, but you've got those innocent kids father, finally a father for your own kids. Aren't you the greatest? Simply the best!
He is the man of your dreams, and with him you are going to live your dreams. It must be true love! Afterall, he broke another woman's heart, destroyed his family and his marriage just to be with YOU. You are so wonderful that he had to dump her for you. But she was horrible in so many ways because he told you so, didn't he? And you have no reason to doubt him because he is so desperately in love with you.
You have finally met your Prince Charming and the fact that he was married when you met him means that he can commit to you. You two were meant for each other so you will commit your life to each other and have children of your own. And you will live the fairytale.....you will 'live happily ever after'.
Or will you?
He is a handsome Prince Charming, living 'happily ever after' with a woman who is not you. You are jealous and challenged at the same time. You want to become part of that fairytale. You want to live your life as Princess Charming, so you write yourself into the script. You turn on your charm and it doesn't take long for Prince Charming to notice you.
You realise that he wants you to come into his life and add some excitement to his charmed but mundane existance. He wants to feel the exhilaration and excitement of it all, because to him, you are also the forbidden fruit. You are the unattainable, and he wants that like any man wants what he is not supposed to have.
To give you the cruel pleasure and comfort that you crave you embark on a furiously passionate affair with another woman's Prince Charming.
You don't even stop to think about his wife. Why would you? Your ultimate objective was to take the goodies and leave Princess Charming with nothing. How stupid can she be, because you are both pulling something over her, aren't you? Who cares what she thinks anyway. If her husband didn't want to cheat he wouldn't have, would he?
So that means he is yours......fair and square. It doesn't make an ounce of difference that she did not know that she was in a contest for her own husband's affections, does it?
And the kids...well they are hers, not his in your eyes. He didn't want to have children anyway, but you know he ADORES his children. But that's OK, because you are a mum and you will take care of them, probably better than that angry and bitter woman that looks after them now. They deserve better too, don't they? And of course you can offer them so much after you've torn their family apart. You can heal the wounds that you have selfishly inflicted upon them.
You are his true love, and you know that because he tells you that all the time. He is madly and desperately in love with you. He can't wait to spend the rest of his life with you. So one day he finally leaves his wife and children to live 'happily ever after' with you.
Mission accomplished! You have got what you set out to get. You've got her man and you should be so proud of yourself! You've got the man that vowed his life to someone else...what an achievement! Not only have you got her man, but you've got those innocent kids father, finally a father for your own kids. Aren't you the greatest? Simply the best!
He is the man of your dreams, and with him you are going to live your dreams. It must be true love! Afterall, he broke another woman's heart, destroyed his family and his marriage just to be with YOU. You are so wonderful that he had to dump her for you. But she was horrible in so many ways because he told you so, didn't he? And you have no reason to doubt him because he is so desperately in love with you.
You have finally met your Prince Charming and the fact that he was married when you met him means that he can commit to you. You two were meant for each other so you will commit your life to each other and have children of your own. And you will live the fairytale.....you will 'live happily ever after'.
Or will you?
posted by kissmekate at 9:58 pm
5 Comments:
i am so sorry for everything you are going through.
it is not an easy place to be but i hope your marriage find true healing.
my prayers are with you and your family
I'm applauding you, shattered - on my blog! This is soo true! Very true. Extremely true. Exactly how it is - couldn't have written this better myself. We should all take turns writing parts 2, 3 and 4.
Job well-done, shattered!
Hey Solarisgal...part 2 has already been written!
Stay tuned!
Oh, yeah, relationships built on lies last a really long time. Why don't these women use some logic? If he'll lie and cheat on his wife, he'll do it to you too. How is love sneaking around and listening to a man complain about his wife so that he can get into your pants? And if you think he wants more than just to "get some", tell him he can have some when the divorce is final. Watch how quickly he'll move on.
Anonymous blogger that has left me a comment re a new blogsite......would be very interested in reading this as it would make my blog very interesting also.
Please email me the address! My email address can be found on my profile page.
Can't wait!
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